Thursday, July 23, 2009

Support Your Local Business - Give Back!

Do you remember the days when you supported local businesses?  I do.  

I grew up in a small town about one hour north of New York City and you knew everyone.  The doctor that delivered me was also my Pediatrician and family doctor.  The family dentist was also in Rotary with my dad and my softball Coach.  It amazes me that within the last 30 years, most of us have gotten away from supporting the local establishment, no matter what the industry.  We shop online and at larger department stores.  Well, with the economy having such negative effects on everyone, some of us are getting back to basics or simply just supporting our local businesses.

This brings me to a local situation here in Tampa that I have had the pleasure of being involved in.  I started using Twitter in April and have met some interesting folks online and developed close, personal relationships with them.  About one month ago, while at a local Tweetup in St. Petersburg, I met someone and we started talking about what we did and things we do in our "spare time".  It was mentioned that a local factory, La Bonita Ole although was showing a profit and paying it's mortgage on time each month that it may be closing soon.  This intrigued me.  

 I read all about the owner, Tammy at www.savethetortillas.com.  I then started Tweeting, sending messages to friends and family nationwide via Face Book and email.  I was overwhelmed at the favorable responses.  During this same time I joined a local Tampa group for TasteCasting and they, too decided what a great opportunity to introduce TasteCasting and support a local business.   

I suggested we solicit the services of those we were following on Twitter and voila! it worked! A Tampa Public relations firm, local businesses, Personal Chefs and Foodies, local media: print, television and radio all got involved.  As a result of everyone's support the event held at La Bonita Ole on 7/22 was a HUGE success!  It's too early to know if we have "Saved the Tortillas", (verdict approximately 8/19), however, it feels great to know that many can come together for a common cause(once strangers) and support a local business through a tough time.  i am so proud of this effort and all involved.  It reminds me of why I'm proud to be an American!!

Take a few minutes to think about what you can do to give back to someone else.  You never know when you or someone you know may be in a similar situation.



Friday, July 17, 2009

What Does it Mean When Men Only Text?

 In the last few months, i have had several friends that have met men on Match.com. They all seem to have one thing in common:  after several dates, they like to touch base with them during the week by sending them a text messages to their cell phone! Although they appreciate them thinking about them in the middle of the day, at what point is it appropriate to expect a 5--10 minute phone call a few times a week? Is it too early in the dating process for phone contact? How are you supposed to progress the relationship if you never "touch-base" by actually speaking to or seeing each other? Is this typical of people you meet on line? 

Well, there are many opinions on this... 

Firstly, I think text messaging is appropriate for a short sweet message to tell someone you are running late, where to find you if lost in a crowd or a note to pick up something from the store.  All other messages should be banned. Why you ask? Because there’s no context, tone, voice, or facial expressions to modify your message. The next thing you know, you’re having a vicious argument that could have been easily avoided in person. Plus you have a transcript to commemorate it! You’re encouraged to misspell, you’re discouraged from saying anything deep or meaningful. 

Some say, "Essentially, texting is emailing for the lazy, illiterate and mobile. You send a text when you don’t want to talk to someone, but you want to let them know you’re thinking of them. And what can be more flattering than conveying, electronically, the idea that you DON’T want to talk to the woman you’re courting? Essentially, guys across America are saying, “Hey, babe. You’re not important enough to get five minutes of phone time. Please accept this weak form of communication and allow me to keep on sleeping with you.”  And as long as you let them do it, they will continue to do it. Because texting is only enabled by the person who writes back to the text. If you don’t respond to texts, guess what? You’re letting him know that it’s a poor way to reach you.

Understand this about men: they will usually do the least that they can to maintain their relationship. So if he can text you at 11pm on Friday night after a week of silence and then ask: “What are you doing?”, well, you get what you deserve. 

But here’s the real problem: there are women everywhere who are complete "settlers" for this crap. Maybe it’s a low self esteem thing, but as long as some desperate girl lets him get away with it, he’ll always have a low-maintenance sexual outlet. Therefore, he’ll never feel the need to do all the heavy lifting of relationships such as “calling” and “dates”….

"But the truth is, you don’t need men who won’t call you. It’s a self-selecting process. If he’s a good man who is genuinely interested in you, he will make the kind of effort that reveals this. If five minutes on the phone is too much work for him, it speaks for itself."  

What do you want and deserve?  Will you respond to that next text?

Please comment...



Monday, July 13, 2009

Should loyalty come into play?

I just got off the phone with a friend.  Well, I thought we were friends.  Let's call him Bill.  Bill and I have known each other for 7 years and keep in touch by phone and in person a few times per year.  He contacted me to fix me up with a fraternity brother of his and asked the best way to introduce us.  No problem, but the strange part of the conversation was him explaining that he wanted to invite me to a private "couples" event that he is having but because he bumped into my ex-husband and mentioned it to him already, he wasn't going to invite me.  What the heck is that all about??  He explained that having me present may be uncomfortable for my ex-husband, who is remarried by the way.

O.k for the big question:  Why do people find it necessary to pick and choose between two people who divorce when they are friends with each? and secondly, shouldn't the friends let the persons who were married and now divorced decide comfort and not have them decide for them?

Please respond and share your view.
Thank you.

Saturday, June 27, 2009

Suggest Topics of Interest

I've been approached to create a website and to include an interactive blog on "everyday people issues"!

I'm so excited.  This is in its infancy stage, so be patient... I'm looking for suggestions on topics of interest to blog on.  So far, I've received requests for covering:  weight loss, obesity in children, coping with divorce, relationships, coping with today's economic issues: unemployment, networking, alternative work field, etc.  

It is my hope to have professionals in the field of topic to offer suggestions and/or a referral service when available.  It will give local and possibly national businesses an avenue in which to advertise and offer their services, too. 

Please send me your thoughts and ideas @Vonnski45@gmail.com or directly to this site.

Thank you for your time.
Yvonne

Excited about the opportunity to give back!

Thursday, May 28, 2009

Pet Issues

Good friend's and neighbors are going out of town to Cabo San Lucas for 9 days and asked my 13 year-old daughter to dog and cat sit.  She said yes and was thrilled because she's sat for them before and she loves animals.  My daughter just came back from getting the house key and last minute updates.  OMG - my daughter needs to be a Veterinarian, not a dog sitter.  One dog has a bad case of fleas and needs to have her stuff sprayed three times a day and if worsens she gets a pill wrapped in cheese.  The other dog has been having seizures.  You have to pick him up and rub him to get him to come around.  They told my daughter if he "goes" then he "goes".  At times they both have bowel and bladder issues, so "please" let out 4 times a day!  What the heck???  Lastly the cat is on a special diet but requires no other maintenance - thank God.  The highlight of all this is that my daughter leaves tomorrow to spend the weekend at her Dad and Step-Mom's until Sunday, so guess who is on duty?  What happened to the days of having a fish as a pet?  (lol)

Tuesday, May 26, 2009

Who did it and ran???

Pitcure this... I just pulled in to my driveway and I see the "mail lady" approaching, so I greet her and take my mail in hand instead of her placing it in the box.  I need to call my air conditioning tech back who's trouble shooting my unit(out since Friday) via phone 'til he can come in person...  but I need to pee!  I turn on the thermostat, run outside, no movement in unit, run back inside and call while doing a jig to the nearest bathroom. While relieving myself I hear this load sound, crash - very metallic sounding.  I jump up, pants being held up by hand, look into the garage nothing has fallen.  I proceed toward my bedroom to change walking past the front of the house and see my with my neighbor sprinting toward my door.  I open and he's screaming call Security(gated community) maybe they can catch the guy.  I'm asking what happened, then see my mailbox pole leaning to one side and the mailbox itself is m.i.a.  My neighbor proceeds to tell me he didn't get a make or model but described the sound of the car or small truck.  What happened to, Oops, I'm so sorry I hit your mailbox(probably chatting on cell phone) and I'll repair or replace it. They sent this steel box almost one full door down from mine.  They obviously(here's hoping) have mirror or car damage.  I'm so NOT happy about this.  Thanks to residing in this lovely and strict deed restricted community it will be about $300-400 to replace my box.  Ah... bite me!!!

Monday, May 25, 2009

Do men have an "I'm in a relationship-type radar"?

O.K.  I've been single for 2.5 years, on paper officially since April, 2008.  Where were the men to take me to dinner, ask to a movie, meet for a drink and/or just have conversation? You were absent?  You were pre-occupied and not so interested.  Well, now that I am "involved" with someone and not out collecting numbers, at present you decide to call and see "how are you doing?"  

Today is a holiday to celebrate and commemorate the life of our past and present war heroes.  It is not to call me and ask what's new?  Can we meet for a drink?  Are you busy today?  Are your kids with you - hence "booty call".  I've received 4 of these calls in the past 24 hours.  Is there a full moon?  I think men have a "relationship-type" radar?  What do you think?  Publish Post